When it comes to giving a blowjob, most of us are satisfied with just learning the basics. There is however, a lot more to giving a blowjob that just sucking and this article gives you the heads up (pardon the pun) on more advanced blowjob techniques.

Have you ever wondered about deep throating? Would you like to know how to master this without gagging? If so then keep reading these blowjob techniques.

When your partners penis goes too far towards the back of your mouth it makes you gag. Deep throating is allowing your partner’s penis deep into your mouth without gagging. In order to do this you need to first understand what exactly is happening.

In reality when something reaches the back of your mouth be it a penis, a finger, or even a piece of food, the body reacts by swallowing. Your partner’s penis does not cooperate with this and this is why we gag. In order to avoid gagging and master the technique of deep throating, the best thing that you can do is swallow.

Adding Variety to Your Blowjob Techniques

Probably the worst thing you can do when giving a blowjob is just repeating the same thing over and over again. Yes your partner will come but the power and pleasure the orgasm produces will not be the same.

Switching blowjob techniques every so often during fellatio can help to intensify the pleasure your partner is feeling. Try to make the change natural and smooth, don’t just stop what you are doing, and start doing something completely different.

Some blowjob techniques that you can try are:

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Sucking harder than you normally would. This is an excellent variation during a blowjob and can feel extremely good.
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Licking. This is another good blowjob technique that you can try. This is something that you can do before you have even touched your partner’s penis and is a great way to get the excitement flowing.
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You can lick him the whole way down the shaft of the penis right the way to his testicles and back. The head of the penis is also very sensitive so some gentle licking here can go a long way. Licking the underside of the penis is also a great excitement producer and is something not to be missed.
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Playing with his testicles and even sucking on them is another technique that can produce great results. You can take a whole ball into your mouth or just play with them with your tongue. Personal taste will direct you on this one.


Use Your Hands

Some of the best blowjob techniques involve using your hands and one of the really effective hand techniques is to use both hands during fellatio. You can use saliva or lubricant to help prevent irritation and to help your hands move easily along the penis.

Start at the base of the penis and slide one hand up to the tip of the penis keeping the other hand firmly on the base. Before your first hand slides off the tip you should begin moving the other hand up to the tip whilst placing the first hand back at the base. This is a great way to get things started and you should continue to get faster each time you do this.

Your hands can also be used to play with his testicles while your mouth devours his penis and they can also be used as a backup when giving your mouth a break. If your mouth tends to tire, the best technique is to switch back and forth between your mouth and hands as part of your normal routine, this way it won’t be obvious that your mouth is getting tired.

There are a lot more techniques that you can try and to discover these you will need to practice, explore, and communicate with each other. Remember blowjobs are for pleasure and in order to achieve the ultimate pleasure you have to be able to communicate openly.

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1. If it's something you enjoy you can become very very good. (that's not worded well but I'm trying to dispell the myth that guys give the best blow jobs, people who enjoy giving blow jobs give the best blow jobs!)

2. I agree with Carolina EXCEPT: at the "finish" (unless your guy has a hair trigger) what you want to do is find that one really good angle and work it! Most(?) guys will have a great time but will never 'cum' with Carolina's technique. If your guy CAN cum with Carolina's technique then truer words have never been spoken, he will probably propose marriage on the spot!

3. Addendum to point two: If you have a guy who needs the "repetitive" treatment in order to blow, going right for it is akin to a guy going straight for your clit when he performs oral. He won't be as sensitive but it gives the impression that you just want to get it over with. Some guys don't know any better themselves, they will learn how fun it can be when you mix things up for him.

4. A truly great blowjob is about getting a guy close to cumming and keeping him there for as long as possible before the final release. (You can ignore all the other points and have this one cast in stone if you like)

5. If your man cums quickly/easily then you are lucky (as far as blowjobs go!). If you have a guy that is more difficult then you need to save something (of yourself) for the end. (I explained this one completely in either the "small guy with huge bf" or "need help bottoming" thread just the other day. It's definitely worth looking up.

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(I hate my screen name - it was supposed to be "curious" as to what was going on in here, and all the good carolina names were taken. I think it has a bi-curious ring to it, and that's not where I'm at.)

You have just noticed that your lover is a fellatio maniac and you would want to give him what throws him off balance. Men love their private parts being stimulated by use of the mouth, lips and tongue. Wow, the feeling is so good he will be begging for more. It does not just happen but you have to employ the right combination of fancy fellatio techniques. Clear your mind off the attitude that this is a dirty game. This will reduce the enthusiasm since no one wants to eat anything dirty.


Once you set the right attitude and mood give your man a blow job like their is no tomorrow. Fellatio techniques are simple and most certainly no news to you only that you have never taken your time to identify just how much they can be used to drive your man wild.

I know many people refer to fellatio as blow job but their is no any blowing involved. May be the blowing of the mind. To know what it is, hold his penis by its base and lick it like that ice cream cone. To make it more exotic, why not buy the ice cream and spread it on the shaft? Lick it from the base upwards as you switch the sides. You can produce the mourning sounds just to show that you are enjoying the fellatio. This is a fellatio technique that will send him to the edge. As one of the fellatio techniques, flick your miracle working tongue back and forth across the delicate and sensitive corona. Should should be light and rapid. This technique is known as butterfly flick. The tongue flicked along the the ridge does it all.

Among breath taking fellatio techniques is the nominal congress. Hold the penis with your hand, wrap the lips around your teeth and move the shaft around in your mouth. It should be flexible enough to move.


You can as well hold the tip and the base and gently bite the sides. It will give a ticklish pleasurable feeling but be very careful not to hurt your man. You will not be forgiven. Try the sulking swirl as one of the fellatio techniques. Move your tongue in circles on the penis and establish a swirl. He will probably be screaming "please do not stop". Just when he thought this was the best, switch to the lucky number eight fellatio technique.


This calls for the tongue to teasingly draw figure eight. Your tongue has the capacity to be hard and flat or soft and curly. Vary the speed and the tongue pressure for best results.

Sucking the manhood is one of the things which makes men to erect at the sight of a suckling baby. They imagine the same being done to them. Automatic Hoover is one of the fellatio techniques which advocates for the suction feeling. It uses the same technique as the vacuum cleaner. You can establish vacuum space in your mouth by tightly holding your lips around the shaft.



Start pumping by the help of your cheeks. Slowly then faster. Ooh! the feeling might make him go unconscious with pleasure. Switch to sucking fruit technique. Take half of his penis and suck it like you are sucking a mango. Do it vigorously and ensure you are using enough lubricant to avoid irritation. This will be perfect timing for deep throating fellatio techniques.


You should try to swallow it controllably since this might make you gag. This technique off course will give him an orgasm if not multiple orgasms. You have just given your man a mild blowing fellatio. It now qualifies to be called a blow job!
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How do I improve my blowjob technique? I do pretty well as it is but operate under the beliefs that a) it's something you can never be too good at and b) different people like different things, so I'd love to know new things to try. What do you like to do/like to have done to you?

Stuff you probably need to know: I'm a girl, single, I get a lot of action. I post this question not because I don't have guy friends I can talk to about sex, because we do talk about it a lot, it's just that I don't want to know exactly what makes *them* tick. TMI between friends, you know. And I know you're already thinking it so: please be more helpful than "don't be afraid to use your hands"! I'm not, and I do.

How do I improve my blowjob technique? I do pretty well as it is but operate under the beliefs that a) it's something you can never be too good at and b) different people like different things, so I'd love to know new things to try. What do you like to do/like to have done to you?

Stuff you probably need to know: I'm a girl, single, I get a lot of action. I post this question not because I don't have guy friends I can talk to about sex, because we do talk about it a lot, it's just that I don't want to know exactly what makes *them* tick. TMI between friends, you know. And I know you're already thinking it so: please be more helpful than "don't be afraid to use your hands"! I'm not, and I do.

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Welllllll, I have so much fun giving blow jobs. I start by licking your lips & kissing you softly. Then I kiss your neck & ear, trailing a line with my tongue down to your nipples. You love it when I kiss, lick & suck on your nipples, don't you? So I do just that, starting on the left then moving to the right. I nip it with my teeth & suck on it like i'm giving you a hickey & then lick it feather light.

All this gets you really hard & the precum starts to ooze. I LOVE the taste of precum. If you tell me there is precum for me I will drop your pants then & there to lick it up. So I lick the precum off the tip of your dick & savor it. Then I start teasing you by licking your shaft up & down & all over, but avoid the head. I lick under the ridge of the head, but do not take the head in my mouth.


Then I lick all the way down to the base of your shaft & take your balls in my mouth, one at a time & suck on them softly. I take both in my mouth & teabag you. I'm willing to bet I get more precum as a reward. Right? So, of course, I have to lick up the precum.

Next I engulf you in your entirety into my mouth, deep-throating you all at once. I stay just like that, your whole shaft inside my mouth, tip at the back of my throat for a minute or so, just letting you feel the wetness & warmth of my mouth. You moan, I'm sure, as it is sheer ecstasy to be buried to the hilt in my mouth. I slowly start to lick the head while it is still in my mouth, ringing around the ridge, flickering at the pee hole. Then I start to move towards the top & suck gently until I let almost all of you out of my mouth. You like to watch, don't you? So I put on a little show for you. I slowly move your thick cock in & out of my mouth in long strokes, sucking softly & in the spots you like it best. I do this until I feel you growing bigger in my mouth. Then the teasing starts again.


I don't let you cum at first. I build up the climax for you, making you beg for release.

I start to lick the head again, probing your pee hole with my tongue in a sensual way that really turns you on, licking your shaft, cupping your balls in my free hand. I take all of you in my mouth again & concentrate on the top of your dick. I move slowly at first then quicken the speed, using my hand at the base of your shaft. It is wet with all the saliva that has dripped down your cock & from my constant licking & sucking, making you good & wet. I start to move my hand up & down in pace with my mouth, giving you a hand job & blow job at the same time, exciting you even more.

You start to ooze cum & I ask if you want me to milk you dry or to let you blow your wad. You see, I am holding the base of your dick & have the control over this. If I continue to hold it firmly you will just ooze cum, but if I let it lose you can have a mind shattering orgasm. Some days I prolong the orgasm by milking you dry, slowly letting little bits of cum squirt over a few minutes, having your orgasm last up to five minutes & other days I make you cum so hard you sees stars.

This day I want to drink your cum so I let lose & you shoot your wad all at once. It is a jism shake for me!!! I love to tease you after you cum, too, licking & sucking on your sensitive head, making you jump in the bed & practically hit the ceiling until you beg me to stop. I give you a little break & then we start all over again.

So, that's my blow job technique, plus or minus some secrets I refuse to tell...you like?